Resource Library

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ICEEFT Resource Center

ICEEFT serves as a centre of excellence for the promotion of secure, resilient individuals and successful relationships between partners and within families. Their mission includes the further expansion and refinement of the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) model through process and outcome research. Another central aspect of their mission is to educate health professionals and to increase public awareness about the efficacy of EFT and its role in strengthening relationship bonds.

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Dr. Sue Johnson EFT Resource Center

Dr. Sue Johnson has often been called “the best couple therapist in the world,” and spends much of the year training other professionals around the world in EFT. The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), her institute in Ottawa, links 70 centers around the globe and supports therapists learning and researching EFT - including our very own EFT Center of Los Angeles!

On Dr. Johnson’s website, you’ll find a wealth of materials, resources, and information to help begin or support your journey with EFT, as well as access to her books, articles, and information on training.

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Books by Dr. Sue Johnson

  • This essential text from the leading authority on Emotionally Focused Therapy, Susan M. Johnson, and colleague, Leanne Campbell, applies the key interventions of EFT to work with individuals, providing an overview and clinical guide to treating clients with depression, anxiety, and traumatic stress.

    Designed for therapists at all levels of expertise, Johnson and Campbell focus on introducing clinicians to EFIT interventions, techniques, and change processes in a highly accessible and practical format. The book begins by summarizing attachment theory and science – the theoretical basis of this model – together with the experiential approach to change in psychotherapy. Chapters describe the three stages of EFIT, macro-interventions, such as the EFIT Tango, and various micro-interventions through clinical exercises, case studies, and transcripts to demonstrate this model in practice with individuals, highlighting the unique benefits of EFT as a cross-modality approach for treating emotional disorders. With exercises interwoven throughout the text, this book is built to accompany in-person and online training, helping the practicing clinician offer targeted and empirically tested interventions that not only alleviate symptoms of distress but expand the client’s emotional balance, agency, and sense of self.

    As the next major extension of the EFT approach, this book will appeal to therapists already working with couples and families as well as those just beginning their professional journey. Psychotherapists, psychologists, counselors, social workers, and mental health workers will also find this book invaluable.

  • Since its original publication in 1996, The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy has been the definitive guide for couple therapists, supervisors, and students wishing to practice emotionally focused therapy.

    This cutting-edge third edition addresses recent changes in the field of couple therapy, including updated research results relating to clinical interventions, expanded understandings of emotion regulation, adult attachment and neuroscience, and dynamic EFT applications for a range of issues such as depression, anxiety, sexual disorders, and PTSD. Chapters introduce micro-interventions for use in EFT couple sessions, as well as a systematic presentation of a macro set of interventions called the EFT Tango. Clinical examples are included throughout, bringing the in-session process of change alive, and two case chapters offer in-depth commentaries of Stage 1 and Stage 2 EFT sessions.

    Written by the leading authority on emotionally focused therapy, this third edition is an essential reference on all aspects of EFT and its uses for mental health professionals in the field of couple and marital therapy.

  • Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is the definitive manual for applying the effectiveness of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to the complexities of family life. The book sets out a theoretical framework for mental health professionals to enhance their conceptualization of family dynamics, considering a broad range of presenting problems and family groups. The first section applies EFT theory and principles to the practice of family therapy. The second section explicates the process of EFT and examines the interventions associated with EFFT, the EFT approach to families. In the final section, the authors provide case examples of EFFT practice, with chapters on traumatic loss, stepfamilies, externalizing disorders, and internalizing disorders.

    Integrating up-to-date research with clinical transcripts and case examples throughout, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is a must-read for therapists looking to promote the development and renewal of family relationships using the principles of EFT.

  • For a full listing of books by Dr. Sue Johnson, along with sample chapters and discount codes, please visit her website.

 

 Media Resources

 

We Heart Therapy (YouTube)

Anabelle Bugatti PhD, LMFT hosts an educational video channel both for therapists and the general public. Her channel, We Heart Therapy, features videos for therapists on the practice of Emotionally Focused Therapy, pioneered by Sue Johnson (http://www.iceeft.com).

Podcasts focused on EFT

Listen to a variety of experts discuss the ins and outs of EFT - from application to practice to theory!

EFT Centers & Websites

  • EFT Lifeline

    Sue Johnson is fond of saying that EFT is what would have happened if Sal Minuchin and Carl Rogers sat down with John Bowlby for tea. We wondered how EFT would have developed had Maya Angelou, James Baldwin, Cesar Chavez, Thich Nhat Hanh, and others also been invited to tea.

    Visit EFT Lifeline for trainings with Nalini Calamur, LMFT, and Jay M. Seiff-Haron, Psy.D as well as a variety of resources that will help you embed culturally specific context into your work and broaden your perspective.

  • Just Relating

    Just Relating™ is designed by ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Trainers, Supervisors, and Clinicians to facilitate integration of sociocultural attunement into EFT and attachment-oriented therapies.

    The most exquisitely attuned therapist combines precision clinical skills with cross-cultural competency.

    Just Relating™ is a transformational training resource – centering justice and humility in the therapy relationship while honing clinical focus and skills. Level up your treatment efficacy from the inside out!

 

EFT Books

 

Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples: Love Heals by Paul Guillory

Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples: Love Heals is an essential guide that integrates emotionally focused therapy (EFT) with cultural humility. It provides a pathbreaking, evidence-based model of couples work that reinforces the bond between partners in the face of race-based distress.

Guillory explores and brings a deep understanding of the legacy of racial trauma, and the cultural strengths of African American couples by using real-life case studies. The chapters in the book focus on several key clinical issues in the field, such as communication problems, anxiety, infidelity, depression, and porn. Each case study is enhanced by a consultation with EFT master therapist Sue Johnson.

The book is an essential text for students and mental health professionals looking to provide culturally competent therapeutic interventions. It will also appeal to psychologists, mental health workers, social workers, marriage and family therapists, and religious leaders.

Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: Restoring Connection and Promoting Resilience by James L. Furrow et al.

Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is the definitive manual for applying the effectiveness of emotionally focused therapy (EFT) to the complexities of family life. 

This book sets out a theoretical framework for mental health professionals to enhance their conceptualisation of family dynamics, considering a broad range of presenting problems and family groups. 

The first section applies EFT theory and principles to the practice of family therapy. The second section explicates the process of EFT and examines the interventions associated with the EFT approach to families. In the final section, the authors provide case examples of emotionally focused family therapy (EFFT) practice, with chapters on traumatic loss, step-families, externalising disorders and internalising disorders.  

Integrating up-to-date research with clinical transcripts and case examples throughout, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is a must-read for therapists looking to promote the development and renewal of family relationships using the principles of EFT.

 

 EFT Articles

 

Articles from Dr. Kenneth V. Hardy

Kenneth V. Hardy, Ph.D. is the President of the Eikenberg Academy for Social Justice, and Director of the Eikenberg Institute for Relationships in New York City. He is also a Professor of Family Therapy at Drexel University in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Dr. Hardy has provided Diversity and Racial Sensitivity training and consultations to an extensive list of Health and Human Services agencies as well as a host of educational institutions. He is a frequent workshop presenter, trainer, and consultant on the topics of cultural and racial diversity, trauma and oppression.

Interview with Dr. Hardy at Psychotherapy.net: Dr. Hardy discusses diversity, multiculturalism, and social justice in psychotherapy, and how he was trained to be a "pretty good white therapist." Read More >

The following two articles are posted for our membership and the general public, with his permission:

Difficult conversations, especially those involving race and other similarly highly charged issues are near impossible to successfully and effectively navigate without either preparation and/or facilitation. These conversations often require will and skill.

— Dr. Kenneth V. Hardy

Let’s Talk About Sex: 3 Articles on Working with Sex and Sexuality in EFT Couples’ Therapy

  • Let's Talk About Sex (Even When It's Hard to Do)

    Article 1 of 3 by Dr. Silvina Irwin & Dr. Lisa Blum

    The EFT therapist is a relationship crusader who willingly goes into the darkest corners of emotion with clients in the service of love. Yet, a whopping 75% of therapists on average (across models) don’t talk about sex with their clients. Estimates posit that between 50%-67% of couples and individuals struggle with their sexuality. Most couples are waiting for their therapist to raise the issue. And the news is disappointing – most therapists don’t.

  • Constructing A Couple's Sexual Cycle

    Article 2 of 3 by Dr. Silvina Irwin & Dr. Lisa Blum

    Some couples can experience a secure bond in their relationship, but still find sex to be a “pocket” of significant avoidance, insecurity, or disconnection. In working with couples experiencing sexual distress, the EFT therapist will do what we already know how to do: help couples see the systemic nature of their sexual dance (i.e. the cycle), and help each partner send clearer signals to their partner about the attachment fears and needs that are evoked through their sexual interactions.

  • Touch, Sex, & EFT: Helping Couples Re-Ignite Sexual Touch in EFT Couples' Therapy

    Article 3 of 3 by Dr. Silvina Irwin & Dr. Lisa Blum

    Couples therapists often encounter a dilemma when doing good EFT work with couples who present with a sexual concern: their emotional connection improves, their verbal ability to identify and step out of their disconnection increases, and yet still they do not begin to re- engage in physical touch or sexual contact.

Alliance and Socio-Cultural Attunement in Psychotherapy

By Silvina Irwin, PhD

This article was written for the San Gabriel Valley Psychological Association Newsletter and speaks to one element of sociocultural attunement. It was written for the psychotherapy community at large and not specific – although it is certainly relevant – to EFT. Read the full article »

Seen and Safe: Talk therapy as adventure and not a simple “chat”

There is a lot of chat these days about the failings of “talk therapy.” The idea is that people need to do yoga, exercise, mediate or just snap out of difficult stuff with a distraction or a medication — not just “sit and chat” about issues. In my English family, a stiff scotch was the medication of choice. […]

The key, whether it’s friendship or therapy, is the level of the talk. It’s hard to move to a deeper level – to go to the edge of our familiar experience — unless we find someone who can tune in and make us feel safe.

Read more at Dr. Sue Johnson’s blog »